Stress but Easy

Body in Damas, Soul in Kepong, while my hearts flew everywhere!

Without even realizing, I’ve been working in damas for my 3rd month already, time pass so quick, and its already may, where I am ignoring my blog for about a month (sorry -.- work too busy, even myself got no time for class).

Don’t all the people feel the bored as the Fire of war is getting smaller? Thanks at last as I could start doing my sales easier, at least more and more people could start letting go the previous happening and accept it as one of the experience of never trust 100% on something that sound too good to be true, but never say no to try something new.

Imagine what, damas actually not that bad at all, except the lack of choices for cheaper food (I’m a picky kind of eater actually), the lack of company during every Meal time, the lack of noisy atmosphere like how Kepong is, and most importantly, the expensive food and parking! It’s killing me every time I look on my wallet and thinking, ‘Where all my money has goes?’

But as long there is some factors to keep motivating me here, aih why bother to mind about staying here for a month or two before I go back to Kepong? After all the “Varieties” could be spotted here much more often than damas. If you are one of the people who hang out always, you’ll know my meaning.

Somehow separated from Kepong doesn’t mean I don’t contact with them anymore. I’ve been looking for all my extra time to spend a short while there, no matter what happen, and it’s relaxing just looking how to members are really concern of “Joshua u seems to be Getting Chubbier!” imagine how I my brain wonder around, thinking, and regretting.

Instead of writing the happening in club, why don’t I share something else right? What is the date today? I will be leaving to Malacca for 2 days just for an Eat along the Way Journey. Fun Sentence to describe my plan right? Yeah I’m really love to eat, never miss out my Yoga Pirate Gang as well, we are going to enjoy the day to the fullest we can, eat like no tomorrow, and suffering torture from Dennis, Chris and few other teacher later when comes back from the trip.

Joshua Chong

Letting Go Once Again, Ending of U.Y and a new beginning of Energy

Something in Life

 

Recently there is something bothering, which concern in my job and future. As every reader of friend of mine will knows, I’m working in a fitness industry, while at Malaysia, the investor always foresee the bright future of conducting a big fitness business in Malaysia, which more and more people are starting to concern about their health.

 

As a practitioner and same time as a health consultant, my life was everything in yoga and works, but do people knows, I am out from the hotel study course? “It’s quite a waste of your study” that’s what all people I do know always commenting, but anyway, I am focusing myself in management side, so I know the comment wasn’t 100% hit right to my weakness spot.

 

Recently, I had been trying to get some advice from friends and teachers, included those older than me, weather to see am I worth be treated like this. From my graduation, I started to be employed into Yoga Zone, working as their front desk cum consultant; however the experience doesn’t last long as the company goes collapsed officially at September 2008.

 

During the period of take-over, I might become one of the guys who so called, stand till last breath, doing all the works, from opening to closing, cleaning, checking in and out, maintaining the leftover stuff in kepong outlet, until the new Urban Yoga organized. I failed to maintain 100%, as there are few bad incidents happening,

 

Shutter Gate at back of outlet get disengaged and stolen by the metal thieves.                        

The guard who assigned to protect the outlet stole our stuff.

The missing yoga mats and blocks, which makes my outlet out of yoga mats slowly.

 

Other than that, I don’t think I lost something less important that this, the trust people give toward us, the yoga zone employee. Well we had been working together with urban yoga again. At this time, some member does asked, “Why you still working here?” and I answer them simply, because the members, that’s all. What makes you felt missing if you left a place which all you’re live, and hard works lies there?

 

From the urban yoga, I proceed my way through to get along with my fellow members, as well its sound as new reviving chances for me, as well to my member who really addicted to yoga. Somehow I felt there isn’t any commitment to motivate me, as its says, you’ll get bored of everything once you already used to that, and there is no advancing stages for you. As for my case, hold on firm until new management taking over, trying to maintain their heart here wasn’t as easy as everyone thinks.

 

After a 4 month of getting through, finally urban had give up the attempt to replacing the old yoga zone, as the expenses are wildly unimaginable, even for a young adult like me. Making some blank long period promises, are the guiltiest thing I had ever done toward my fellow members, where I use that as an attraction for them to remain together with me (am I worry of being alone from people I know again?)

 

As I am expecting, some member started to release their previous anger again, added with the empty promises, I felt I am  unable to cover all the fault I’ve done, where in first place, I am the one using it as the motive to get them back. I always mentioned,

 

“Never greed for the small advantage as you’ll get trap afterward and can’t get out from the edge of losing more”.

“Short term advantage never means its forever, you’ll risk if you don’t understand the situation”.               

“A moment of clear decision takes you to either win or lose situation. If you regret it, that’s means u never think about It”.

 

If I am such a talker, why I am not practicing it? This makes me felt I am partial philosopher, and partial sinner. That’s just so true on me. My teacher does advise me, strong and without hesitation. Let go all the achievement you gained for now, and start again from a different field, as this field not under my rice bowl anymore. If I can stand firm, then just back to them, and complain nothing.

In the end, I choose the second option. I got no firm standing ground to land, and I got no strong back support to bring myself away. Seeing the Urban Yoga left and new company comes in, making me felt it started again, for the third time. Going through a probation period of 3 month, been waiting for an appraisal checking and wait for confirmation. And then, there is no guaranteed I will pass my probation this time, no matter how long I had been doing in this field, or how hardworking, loyal I am to this service line.

 

Felting myself being lost again, I am actually really confused with myself. I used to look on people like tigers, who step back first not because I am afraid, but because I am trying to tolerate, and if you continue, I’ll charged if you caught my attention(either physically, mentally or Coincidence-ally). But what makes me getting coward and hiding in my own den?

 

Losing my Fangs, Losing myself, and soon I will losing everything too.

Please tell me how to get back myself in short term? People who close to me would realize how much I had changed lately, due to all this un-answered question, and un-savable condition of mine.

 

Note: I am not pinpoint any of my article, sentences or people regarding to comment about my working place, so please do take note an don’t take my job, and your affair, to my blog where I share myself with others. If you just wanted to say, I am trying to grab people to the new clubs, you can stop reading my blog now. Thank you.

 

Regards,

Joshua/Lang

 

A meal in The Spread, Midvalley The Gardens

What’s happening?

Just getting back from a huge buffet meal, which cost everyone of us rm50 to enjoy the 2 hour dinner, which start from 6 to 8, guess what, we are the noisiest, loudest and biggest group of customers, 10 lady, 1 boy, accompanied with plenty of foods, few waiter n waitress, a manager and some chefs around, chatting about where to go after tonight shift.

Been joining them for almost a period of time already, they still dun wan change the word of, still wan join this group of ladies ah, later year by year pass very quick u know? Yeah, I know time pass real quick, but imagine going out with u ladies makes my day really much more livelier, imagine myself required to stretch my face, make up an attitude and create a full scale plan when intend to date or going out with one girl? Going with u ladies seems more comfortable.

Lately, our group just recruit a few new members, 2 of them is Serena’s frequent practitioner, and one of them is Chris’s student, but won’t reveal their identity unless they ask my themselves why I blog them. Do notice our group got a really powerful quote, which is

“Once u let yourself getting into the pirate’s car, its means no return”

“We have no more Features, so stop saying how Presentable u and I could be”

“We goes dirty sometimes, and frequently pumping in extra calories, but we are still Yogis and Yoginis”

Nice? This is my group of buddies along in Urban, which will have a new brand name later, but I don’t care, its still yoga learning place, you are my members, I am your consultants, and we both are practitioners, only teacher are different, where some seems to be “oh my god its deadly” teacher, or “mild and soft” teacher, or maybe there is some “man man lai ah…” teacher, but most rare also our Mr.C n Mr.D, who frequently makes our class unexpected.

Here goes the story again…

We had a short driving trip to gardens in mid valley, to enjoy their buffet dinner at 6^th floor, its was a really nice dinner, plus with the view, the food and the nice restaurant waitress and waiter, which very attentive. I would really rate the restaurant 8/10, and the Restaurant Name is “The Spread”. Lovely name isn’t it?

Just buy a really nice bag from FOS, and I am really liking it (Thx Michelle to accompany me to FOS), and almost everyone get to buy a piece of yoga practice wear again. Oh well, bad shop tat don’t sell gents attire, or should I try wear like Chris? Cant, I don’t have the body, the bravery and the element to handle the sight and questions.

What’s Good and Bad happened to Me Starting February 2009?

Let’s State it out.

Bad…

1. Getting Transfer to Damas until new staff employed.

2. Need to suffer from lack of practice cause no time to attend class.

3. Just buy some expensive bags, and craving for new perfume again.

4. New Skincare product is out, and I am dreaming purchasing it!

5. Some people says I’m getting fatter, even Serena also Noticed!

6. Lost my Updates on Kepong Registrations (just imagine I can remember each possible member in kepong, and I can’t recall just after 3 day in damas!)

Good…

1. Given chances to amend whatever mess in Damas as I like

2. Got new chance to knew more girls in damas (this is really really good)

3. Get a new bag, yes I get a brand new bag for myself.

4. Having chances to play more, eat more, enjoy more, but well, calories add more.

5. My Dad says; go take a course to become teacher, which means, he giving me approval for TTC, Yes!

6. My Friends would be back soon, around June, what’s more happier than this? No longer would single and I make myself craving for clubbing each night.

Wondering will I keep on going fat until I might become ah xiang in future, I hope not, but I dream to have his flexibility + Thomas power in my future become a Pilate’s teacher. However this year still fun for me, intend to tryout trip to Bali and Hong Kong this year, so my money won’t be all wasted in perfume, skincare and body care.

Many people ask me why don’t get a girlfriend for myself. Well here’s an answer for u all, firstly, she must be really into what I am into, guess what, I am compatible to chat in every topic, including from gents to ladies and even to other things (well you know what in your mind…) and I don’t see I saw any one of this kind of girl are younger, single or even hooked on me.

Second, I spend most of my time working, and enjoying my life with all my friends, members and foods. So can you expect a girl which can bear my attitude, or even join me along? I hates being tied for my life due to one relationship, which spoil my days just to listen and seeing her, well she might can handle if she able to join me together, but I don’t see girls at my age can communicate and enjoy along with those ladies like I does.

Third, I like girls who are much more matured and can take care myself, which most of my age girls cant seems to have it, even there is, they are occupied, or engaged, dream to married before 27, but dreams don’t comes easily, especially with my attitude rite? Imagine I get chained by her because she is my girlfriend. And get manipulate by her with female best charm power, “Tears, Smiles, Brain, and Appearance”.

Lastly but not least, I am a really teruk guy who will looks more on status, lifestyle, and capability, maybe some chemistry to makes sure she is someone matchable for me, as I am really fussy and more demanding, she will suffer a lot, especially when she in not how I want, and she don’t make it better than herself are and how I want her to. Selfish and I don’t have the quality. So I know my dream can’t get fulfilled.

This is the Joshua 4 Reason to Still Being Single, Available and Fussy on Looking!

Many people would feel like kicking me after reading it, don’t do it, I might kick u back! 

Esther n Renee,

Having Fun reading?

Enjoy your February, as March is coming in one week’s time. Urban-Fellows would understand me. ^_^

 Regards,

Joshua

Elder Means Better

What’s happening?

 

Recently I had been lost from bloging for a short period of time, all because I was mixing with a group of members who are really entertaining, lively and makes my life always getting brighten either early of the day or end of the day, or maybe my boring weekends!

 

From the day 1 I was joining them, I know that life would get livelier; can you guess who they are? And why Joshua is so attracted to follow them so much? The answer lies below just continue reading it.

 

Here it goes,

 

They aren’t young, if you think they do, practically they aren’t in my kind of age, most of them are older than me about 15 years old and above, even the youngest are around 35+, but most of them aren’t married, and guess what, they are really humble person, easy to mix together and we do share those topic together.

 

First lets introduce Esther, our group president, even though she mix less with use recently, its was really enjoying when she is around us, bringing joy, fun and everything to us always, and guess what, she might being the oldest among everyone but trust my word, she is real humble person, and she does pamper me a lot during my hard times.

 

Our Vice president would always, and no others are Kelly, don’t think she is weak women ok? We might get sweep away if we look easy on her, her small size doesn’t means she is easy to take care off, where she is the mood setter among us. If you want me to give 3 words I can say about her, it’s Dependable, Mature & Enlighten.

 

 Third to goes is Agnes, Who is my God Mom all the while. And trust my word, she is at the same age as my mom is, and they both are young ok? She might being stubborn sometimes, but that’s what always making us having fun always during the most boring time. She seems free and busy all the times, wondering how busy and free a self employed accountant are rite?

 

Never to forget, our singer, fighter, operator, and all could goes around when she is around, our funny ‘King”. Dun look down on her on her small size ok? She got some fighting lesson and she can kick your ass easily. Love to sing, talk some lame stuff and making whole group laugh non stopping, this is what she is always doing when around together.

 

Lastly, Michelle! Guess what, she is the youngest among the permanent members, except me of course. Michelle are another great customer service officer, working with AIA, she got plenty of experience on handling your complains k? she might is the biggest among everyone, quite tall and got a beauty figure, but she might be sweet and spicy, so approach on your own risk.

 

There are plenty of part time members, but let’s talk about them later, since the blog is about me right?

 

Before I was just confused myself, as people do says why you rather to mix with the bunch of aunties (even they do comment about this) rather den going out along with the peoples who are around my age gap?

 

Read this, this is what I can says about them, they might be older than me a lot, but I do enjoy the days with them, we shop, talk, eat and having food parties, celebration together and its is much more, really much much more better than those young girls and guys I am mixing all along.

 

Esther, are you reading my post all along the way?

Having fun huh?

Let’s talk about it when the outing date arrives.

 

 

Joshua/Lang

Appreciation & Recognition toward employee

Appreciation & Recognition toward a good employee within their due

As everyone would notice where in a working industry, most people are working for earning a living or trying to being a sole breadwinner as they could, for families, themselves or even for some future purpose, which more concern on how they could keep on maintaining their commitment and motivation toward their work instead of changing their job within a year or two.

In Malaysia, most of the job aren’t that professional as I thought, its solely either managed too easily, too free and even too far from the detailed management order, which could makes the employee’s life getting more harder, including with lack of training, professionalism of higher employer, and the willingness of spending a small sum for a better efficient working ability training, this makes the job in Malaysia market spoiled and corrupted.

Let me ask this question before me further on,

·         How would you choose a job to commit?

·         Will you find a job which your studies based on, and work for the rest of your life there?

·         What is your short, middle, long range plan?

·         For how many years would you wish to stay with the company?

·         When you feel you are well educated for the working life?

 

Read this case study before you proceed.

Gordon, who is just return from his holiday, was informed by his colleagues where their superior was looking for him during his holiday, and he placed an envelope with a letter and a tag there, filled with a curiosity, Gordon head to his table and open the envelope, which had a letter written by the human resource department, saying he is promoted into a better position, after 25years serving for the customer serviced base company, as their way of presenting their person in charge of department, Gordon received a new name tag with his name and position written on it.

 

However, Gordon realize that this situation happening too differently, he was informed with a letter, and without feeling appreciation toward all the 25 year of service he give to the company, he felt this is something couldn’t happen as he is not a troublesome employee and he never been counseled for his job, and with this promotion which not being short notice toward him, no personal emails, phone calls, or even a congratulate handshake from his superior.

 

Gordon felt he should at least felt for a recognition toward his 25 year of service, and with a short notice of such happening, makes a person felt he had been wasting his 25 years of service toward the company, as everyone noticed, a few kind words could soothed the hurt feeling, and recognition are motivating, but a thoughtlessness produces just bringing an opposite effect.

 

The End

 

After a case study, do you realize what is we are facing actually within our working industry as well? The same happening are faced by every single employee here, even myself, being unappreciated and un recognized by the company for your service, and even facing the hardness caused by our company due to the lack of attention from the superiors toward us, the so called small potatoes which always works as a very front defensive tools.

 

As we could try to understand what the superior of each level could face in their daily job, but it’s really hard to understand how they would think about what everyone would be going through all the levels. Imagine when a superior of yours who spend a few years to reach higher steps, and he/her trying to pass all the pain she suffered before, onto us as it becomes an education tools of “All people who wanted to get promoted must taste this suffering before you get what you want”.

 

My Own Opinion

As I could think of, the practices of appreciating and motivation each other is a must within an establishment to keep the flow ongoing, starting for the highest employee in understanding how his staff could assist him in making his life easier, this is the most first foundation of a company Board of directors should have before its reaching down lower and lower until our position, which is the small potatoes.

 

As everyone could understand the term of, higher position equals to better pay and more stress and less freedom, do you think this is a term which everyone should follow until the worlds end? I believe the world is created to balanced everything, if everything have a misfortune, there would be somewhere with cure for it. The world is always comes in two ways, a challenge and a solution. Do you all agree?

 

A well balanced and organized management team is the most firm foundation to start with, followed with the second stage, which is the departmental heads, who could helps in educating, team-forming, understanding and socializing among the team players. With this 2 strong foundation and base, team player at most likely to be well support with the best they could receive, and to generate the best revenue for the company to continue their establishment, slowly by slowly into a stronger and bigger establishment.

 

Somehow, this wasn’t something that could be seen in the Malaysian working field, where starting from the less concerned president, goes to their half dedicated bunch of empty talked assistants and directors who can estimate, talk and do nothing, and its goes toward the busy of everything thrown from the superiors manager and assistants, and lastly this goes to the employees, who facing so much hardness due to the foolish demand created by the superiors to making everyone life goes difficult a day followed by a day.

 

As I could notice, only some other bigger companies which is US based cooperation had the better management team and appreciation method to make their employee give their best to their work, so the conclusion was, Malaysia still have a long way to went through, into creating a stronger working foundation to make Malaysia a step further to achieve their successful of making a Attentive, Committed and well organized country.

 

Well Said, Nothing Offensive I hope, Please take note where this all are My Opinions, Comments are welcome, please feel free to do so. Thank You for reading.

 

Best Regards,

Joshua/Lang

 

Managing Your Tension

Managing Your Tension

 

When we say about the word tension, how would we interpret the word tension with our own sentences? For me, the tension words means something required to be revised and solved, this word aren’t necessarily to means as a trouble or even something that very influencing, as the word tension could be used by every single sentences as if, (I can felt the tension if the air today) or the atmosphere in the office today seems to be quite tension). Since tension could be used in such a different way, why bother to imprint it as one of the troublesome words in our dictionary of lives?

 

Tension is a word, or even something not well seen, which are coming for us to face every day in life, no matter it’s about work, relationship, or a challenge and obstacle which we are required to overcome. Tension could be used as a challenged for us to enhance our living, in different terms, as if you seen from every person, we face different tension every day.

 

Let us make the tension as an example of Difficulties we met during our time pass by:

Working Tension

Working tension often are the difficulties which everyone will face every single day, either in Socializing (the communication between employee, employer and colleague, customers and distributor). Duty (the amount of workload, the difficulty of completing the work, the uncompleted document for perfectly finishing the job, the obstacle met during the way to complete the work, the commitment and the motivation to perfectly completing the job) .Responsibility (the risk of taking up the problem, the difficulty on handling the problem, the time and cost required to complete or solve the difficulties). Time (the time given on completing some task, the time on managing everything during work, the limited time which required sacrificing and re-structuring due to the huge amount of works.)

Relationship Tension

Relationship tension often comes in a conflict between feelings among peoples, family and strangers. Communication (the tension between families, friends and people surrounding) Commitment (toward families, partners & Life) Responsibility (among each person, in regarding of everything inflict in their daily life).

 

Since there is such many tension in every moment in our life, should we bother thinking how we could run away from everything? Or we could just ignore all this tension dropped upon us to solve?

 

 Instead of running away from this responsibility, difficulty, why don’t we try to manage our own tension? Tension are same like love, it will come automatically even we doesn’t wanted to be in contact with it. A person who can control and manage his own tension and use it as a tool and opportunity is the person who could be successful in their life.

 

How could we understand more about tension? “Tension” is actually something we required to understand it as some term of challenge and signal where it’s something would require a difference, communication and understanding among people, time, and solution to take control of the tension.

 

Tension is something must be appear in everything, where without any tension, there won’t be any movement, growth and even life in every aspect in a life being, tension also could work as a signal, which created by difference and uniqueness of people to create a relationship.

 

What tension could help us with?

A life in a relationship – tension are something which spark up our life, too less of tension bring a relationship toward apathy, but too much of tension would bring the relationship into stress as well. The main point majorly are focusing on how we manage to keep it alive along the relation, with the help of tension, its help us to communicate, understanding, release, reconsider and work as a mechanism for strengthening a relationship.

Know where we are- tension helps us to realize our actual position, where we stand, and how further we proceed and our ground is. It’s also an element we required to manage, understand and befriend with before we proceed, understand the reality and know where and how we should go.

Educate a Person how world goes around him – some people are grown facing on all difficulties and different challenges during their life, and end up being blinded up by some happening which lead him toward the wrong way he should understand and follow. Tension works as a value in this part, which the person should be learn to look the value among his understanding, journey, and communication.

Tension also works as dilemma during work, if it wasn’t managed well, such dilemma are:

·         Relationship Focus Vs Task

·         Individual Focus Vs Groups Focus

·         Future Focus Vs Present

·         Internal Vs External Focus

(Quoted From Star Metro Classifieds Monday 8/12/08)

 

How to See & Deal with it?

Negative tension often created when we are facing a difficulty, especially between relations and group works, example, try evaluating this group and Soloist described below.

Group – group started without any conflict, with a very understanding leader who receives every comment from the team and trying to creating a healthy tension between them, facing each other difficulties together and trying to comfort each other with a rule.

Soloist – isolated from any team player, soloist will tend to be using only his own idea, thinking and isolated from other comments and advised, which makes him become anarchy of his own tension and controlling it in a different perception. There is still potential but the tension part is unhealthy compared to the group.

 

Which one you prefer yourselves to go ahead?

The tension is easily lit up by an easy step, however handling this tension won’t be easy as well, where this tension might connection with every different people and their surroundings as well. This is where the 2 typical way of dealing takes part.

First way is by treating the tension as a wrong happening, where the person or group would required taking control and make the wrong become right, changing the rules within and fully moderate it into a healthy tension.

Second way would be viewing the tension as a growth and opportunity to clarify and learned to create a new challenge, which it would be a good way to question one selves and creating a dialog of communication.

 

Lastly, tension are meant to be a need for everyone, without tension a person are most likely life-less, while tension brings the struggle and goals to a person who fight along it, befriend or overtake it.

 

Regards,

Joshua

Note: Everything written are revised from The Star Classified, Personal Development Program, Own Interpretation, No Copying and post on other link without permission. TQ

A New Year Eve Together

Dear Wisdom Tree,

 

The celebration of New Year eve is another happy moment for me, thanks to the member who accompanied me during that night, Michelle, Kelly, Karen, King and Agnes. The Korean dinner are very enjoying, as what u ladies says, guys who get the food right to your table are a gentleman right ? I did so am I? Anyway, that food wasn’t that enjoying as our vice president, Kelly, and the president, Esther, couldn’t join us.

 

Pity Kelly for being force to stay in office for an urgent meeting, and for Esther, cause she got a dinner to attend, the food are really nice, aww!, so that night was a nice meal for us 4 only, had 2 BBQ order, a pork and a chicken, another side order was the pork belly, but wondering where is the oysters. Instead it’s accompanied with Kim chi and some green and red chilies.

 

We do enjoy our short period of enjoying a breeze of mountain wind at the Desa Park City, which always remain as my targeted place to stay, the short session are so fun, as Michelle, Karen n King are enjoying listening toward my stories, which quite fancy as it sounds, but Lame in the reality.

 

After a while, Agnes is interested in joining us, where we are required to get down from the hill to menjalara uptown (Haih, Mom always lau kai 1, hahaha). So we end up watching the minor part of fireworks. However the plans after 12pm are the best for that day.

 

Kelly comes and join us, where we all are heading toward Damasara Perdana, for getting some free drinks during new year, thanks Michelle for it, ^_^, However the drink are really un-expectable. I drink it for a few cup, and the kicking feeling storm up toward my brain at once, where I and king are drunk after that. Kelly would be the best overall, she not even feeling a little tipsy after drinking with us.

 

I am drunk for whole night, where I happen to be awake after 4.30pm, there goes my 1^st January, and anyway there is no written method to enjoy the New Year right? So happy new year everyone!

 

Regards,

Joshua

My Christmas Eve

Dear Wisdom Tree

 

Today was the celebration of Christmas eve, where everyone are busy with their planning and schedule which organized months ago, celebration, shopping, meeting friends, and other fun and attractive activities, was all chunk-up together for the 2 days, which fall on the 24^th Dec, the Christmas eve, and the 25^th, the day of Christmas.

 

As I could trying to mesmerize some of my last year Christmas, I still remember I spend the day drinking with Felicia and partying with her friends, drinking and drinking cause we got nothing to do after graduated. But for this year, its much livelier due to I had a big group of members who are accompanying me during the night of eve.

 

This year of Christmas eve wasn’t that much expected, maybe due to the economy crisis hitting whole world, the natural disaster which hits everywhere in the country, increasing of the crime rate, and everyone was trying to keep more money so they could try get through this economic crisis again. That’s a reason why Curve wasn’t really having any grand celebration this year too.

 

Were there with Sharon, Esther and Daughter, Karen, Kelly, Michelle, Agnes n King. Celebrating Sharon and Karen’s birthday. Meanwhile I do bring 2 girls together to the spot, but they ending up running around the centre and leaving me with those so called Aunty behind. Luckily Coey and her GF/BF are with us too.

 

Imagine we are sitting at the empress café for about 1 hour, finish our drinks and the food still haven’t cooked out for us. Tony Roma are another troublesome outlet, where they require us to wait 2 hour for a seat, it was like, WTF, I need to wait 2 hour for your food, no thanks. So ending up all of us are going to another restaurant (forget its name).

 

We had a really nice conversation together, and enjoying the food really much, the hosts are really professional, because he prepared the seats for us immediately after we told him the number of Pax. As well because the foods are coming quickly, this is what makes the restaurant all nice!

 

Was caught attention by Valerie, my ex workmate in park royal kl during practical training, lucky she went back to kl for her holiday before went back to Australia again, this is really nice cause I can have a new girl for date again later, guess why ? Because she grow much more mature after being in Australia for 1 year plus, and she get real pretty during this night.

 

Apart of that, I saw my mentor too, Zi Wen, Thanks for all the last lesson you teach me, I am still using what you teach, don’t worry, won’t spoiled your name as my mentor cause I appreciate people who teach me during my younger season. But she had gone prettier as well. I almost can’t recognize her when we change the first sight on the spot.

 

 

Somehow I get some complaint from some parties, well, it’s really hard to trying to be the best guy around right? Few complain I get about myself are:

 

Attitude

Must be more man, cant so Hiau anymore,

Need to firm up a bit, not easily distracted,

Very selfish, must buck up.

 

Attire

Try to be more casual young, not apek young or tshirt boy.

Try to be more stylish; don’t be like a geek around.

Be myself according to my age (blur)

 

Well, guess I got my assessment again tomorrow again, wondering what she’ll thinks again when she saw my blog here, which keep in secret from her?

 

Guess the post only last long until here,

Merry Christmas Readers,

Regards,

Joshua

Relationship Hits Saturday

Dear Wisdom Tree,

 

Today, I have a quite colorful day in my life, the experience keeps on coming toward me from morning till night, where its really not happening since I make sure myself focus on my career. Its really memorable, a really happening day after my YZ-Incident end so long.

 

After my Malacca trip, I was fortuned to be introduced toward a group of new friends, who are really warm and lively, I do enjoy the time being together, sleep in the same house, enjoy the same game, understanding each other in that 3 days. Imagine how much could happen and shown if we all are under 1 roof.

 

Today morning was a shock when I realize that the girl I had appointment with suddenly informed me that she was heading to the train station early, so end-up I had to rush my food, by converting my soup to dry style myself on the spot. Its wasn’t getting any better as hurries I eat and tat cause me to bear the coughing part myself until I calmed down.

 

During waiting for the train, I had to try my best to focus on her, as there is more den 2 hot girls around me, walking, talking, smiling, or even surveying around, as I was caught with 3 to 4 young girls attention, I was so distracted to stare at them, well cause they do wear and looks better, sexier den the girl I was going with.

Was advised to the 1^st row, cause it less peak during afternoon, well, up to her, as I wanted to evade the attention of my eyes toward other girls as well. During the boarding, I had a real good chat with her, talking about our few month experiences after not contacting each other. As I was busy with my yoga career, she is struggling to commit in 1 of the place she worked.

 

We had a short walk in Metrojaya, and then Jusco mid valley. Then we are going for the movie, ‘Wild Child”. I would gladly rate the movie 4 over 5, as for the story, acting and the humor the movie bring to me and her. (Take note as she is not my girl, No No).

 

After that movie, I could see she was bored with me, as I was a guy who rarely get a girl out, but I hate to have a person who accompany me half day and ditch me middle of the date, so I was getting 1 of my Malacca friend, Kim to help me ditch her off. As expected, she leave after the meal, as I was trying to tell her, get lost, u got no attention on me anyway after the movie.

 

Thanks for Kim’s advice, finally I bought myself an EDT, it’s the Apple perfume, DKNY Delicious Green Color. As I love the perfume as much I could, I wouldn’t think about I could get it with a body lotion and a miniature for Rm300. (Rm300 might be a medium sum for some people, but for me rm300 is a cost for me to pamper myself).

 

Kim, Expect me coming with some friends later, since I am really interested to let the fish bite me in the fish spa, its was so enjoying to see how all the kids and customer enjoy it, but can I get a massage free ? Of course away from your bf acknowledge.

 

On my way back, unexpectedly I saw 2 of my secondary school friends, its was really a memory, coz we all are under the librarian group until I was expelled due to anonymous reason, which I think nobody would accept this bloody ridiculous appellation. But never mind, everything passed for 4 years, I moved on anyway right?

 

Anyway, we had a really fun and enjoying chat, everyone is telling about their details, and explain what they had gone through this few years, and I finally realize, my friends are still around me, and I am not alone, when I willing to spend a little of money and time, I could get back my old friends anywhere I saw them.

 

During the time I reach home, I told my mom how happy I am today, as I was always sharing what I gone through with mom like how a daughter with their mom always. Yes I am girlish I know, wondering why I was born as male instead of female, but guess its what the nature decide, lets follow it. I wouldn’t even try changing my sex, as its gift from my parents; they won’t be annoyed by my soft attitude anyway.

 

When reaching 9, I had another girl to meet again, this time its 1 of the youngest member in Urban Yoga Kepong. But bad luck as she is getting me there to eat my money, anyway why bother to get eaten rm10 if its making her getting happier as I couldn’t confirm I can makes better den her maybe appear “BF”. As everything is finish, I rush back to home, because I need to check on my time as I am working tomorrow morning.

 

And when I started online, another girl looking for me again, wondering what happen to my flowery luck, the girls are getting me no where, but not in relation of course. She was really bothering as she is easily offended by a simple word, a simple sentence or even if I reply her slower den 3 seconds. Well we argue anyway, and gladly she back online and ask for forgiveness.

 

Days are going to end as time reaching 11.45pm. Thinking what I was really expecting today, guess I had it better den what I want. So I accept my day as ending with happiness. Lets fight again for tomorrow morning, and face what challenge that will bother me tomorrow. I believe there would be no sweet day always like today.

 

Its Grateful i enjoyed my day today.

Its Good i pass another day in my life.

Its A Bless i had myself for my day.

 

Regards & Namaste

Joshua Chong